Whatever we do in our personal or professional life we do what we know or think is best for us. Sometimes things go as we had planned them and sometimes they don’t. Even when they don’t go as planned we try to find the silver lining or make efforts to change the situation but sometimes no matter how hard you try you don’t get the desired result. Such moments made you think that because you didn’t get what you wanted so this outcome is not best for you.
There often comes a time in everyone’s life when things seem to be beyond one’s control. You try every possible way to make things go certain way but still the end result is not what you may have wanted. When such a thing happen at a minor scale we just accept it and doesn’t put too much thought in it but when some big event doesn’t occur according to our plan or some unpleasant situation arrives we tend to go in the state of sadness.
We start thinking about the what ifs. What if it had ended differently or what if it didn’t happen at all. Our mind goes into the shock state where its not able to process the situation efficiently. We either start blaming the situation, other people or ourselves. The pain of not getting what you wanted or being in a unwanted situation can become unbearable. It feels like the universe is conspiring against you but its also possible that maybe this is what’s best for you.
Often times we get lost in the circumstances or are unable to understand the things in grand scheme of events. You may have experienced yourself that sometimes as the time passes you thank god about how the things have turned out or haven’t turned out because now you are in much better position than you’d have imagined. Its very common thing to blame someone else or yourself for something not turning out the way you wanted. Sometimes it just doesn’t meant to be your way. It has to be the way it happened or is going to happen.
At times when things are beyond your control you should just accept it and believe that this is what’s best for you. Its not happening according to your plan but according to universe’s plan. It may not prove to the best for you during the moment. You will realize it later that whatever has happened has happened for the best.
Its hard to bear the reality of something unwanted happening or not happening the way you desired. Its even harder to accept it as it is and to move on without any regret and grudges. When you lead your life with the hope of finding good you find it. Look beyond regret, anger, envy & grief and embrace hope, kindness and forgiveness. What you seek is seeking you, so believe in the best and you’ll get what’s best for you.
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