There often comes a time in life when one questions his/her self-worth. Difficult times forces us to think that we are not worth it, that we are not meant to be a success. In our vulnerable moments we tend to take other people’s opinions to our heart. Just because you have failed in some task does not make you a failure. The opinion of others doesn’t define your worth.
Having a rough patch in life is inevitable. You cannot stay happy all the time. There will come a time when you will be down and at such moments it is important to remember that this is just a phase in your life, it does not define your self-worth. You should not be lost in the thoughts of sadness and think that you can’t get out of the situation. In order to stay sane always keep this thing in mind that you deserve all the success and happiness that you ever wished for.
When you try to do something new or make some mistake at your job, the people are ready to make fun of you. They are quick to point out your shortcomings. You may even get yelled at by your boss and deemed unworthy of the job but does that really mean that you are not worthy of your job just because you made one mistake. Even if you are not meant for the job it does not imply in any way that you cannot be successful in life. Most people change several jobs before they find what’s actually right for them.
Its possible that you are not successful according to world’s definition. It could be true that you are not there yet in your life where you thought you would be. This does not mean that you will never reach there. Even if you don’t get there, you will go where you deserve to go. It doesn’t mean that you were not worthy of what you were dreaming. It just means that you are mature enough to realize that you are worthy of much more.
Don’t be afraid to try new things and fail. People always have something to say to bring you down. They are afraid that you may do what they couldn’t do. It is completely okay to figure out life as it goes on. It is okay to make mistakes, learn from them and make new mistakes. Others’ opinions about you does not define what you are worth for. Its just what they think you are but you are so much more than their imaginations and you worth more than they could ever imagine.