When things don’t go our way we tend to feel disheartened or frustrated. In such situation the first thing we do is we start blaming either situation or some person. Blaming something or someone else because our expectations didn’t get fulfilled is our coping mechanism. We put too much thought into things like “this is supposed be this way” and “it should be that way” that when things don’t happen the way we expected them to be we start assigning blames.
Sometimes its necessary to look at the things with open mind. Things happen in your life for a reason. That reason may remain unknown for a long time but when you do realize the reason everything starts making sense. You may not feel happy or thankful but you start understanding that why that thing happened the way it happened. Then you realize that it was supposed to happen that way.
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Why it is supposed to be this way
The understanding sometimes come sooner and sometimes it takes a long time. Until that time people keep on feeling sad or angry or keep on wondering that why did it happen to them. Its hard to let go of such feelings. Only thing that can help in such a time is to accept. Accept the fact that it happened and it must have happened for a reason and it is supposed to be this way. This acceptance can help you fee lighter within yourself.
Now, you may say that if its supposed to be this way then you should just sit back and do nothing and let things happen. No, you should put all your efforts to achieve something or to make things work in your way. Despite all your efforts if you are not able to change the outcome then instead of feeling like a failure or getting disheartened you should accept the fact that sometimes your best is not good enough and it has happened that way because its supposed to be. Universe’s plan is bigger and better than your plan and everything is happening according to its plan.